I am still smack in the middle of the 21 day daniel fast, with one week to go.  I am thinking of going all liquids the last week, but will see how I feel tomorrow and if it is what I truly want to do. I have so much on my plate to do this week and I want the fasting to enable me to think LESS about food. I have found myself taking up too much valuable time contemplating what I will eat and what fits in the diet, etc. Are grains allowed at all? Am I eating too many high-carb veggies like carrots and potatoes? Well, YEH, but I do not want to have to worry about all of that.

Weight management will come on the 30th when I get the new Qore system! woohoo! But for now, I am fasting for more spiritual and emotional purposes. And it is great!

It has been a nice reprieve to be abstaining from social media this month. It has been good to evaluate whether I was involved in twitter and facebook for business/ministry purposes, or for pleasure. or all of the above.  I am reading several books, and listening to my new audio New Testament I got from Thomas Nelson Publishers. I will be writing a review on it soon.

The month has flown by, and I am coming closer to solidifying my new goals and purpose for the new year. I feel refreshed and excited about it all, but still have so much to do to get ready for it. I think I am destined to always have that feeling, like I have too many things and not enough time. It is one of the hassles of being creative and entrepreneurial. My mind is always full of ideas and projects. But it is nice to know they are all neatly bundled into one specific stream of goals and purpose, and not a gazillion tangents like before.

I am growing. I am finding so much joy in the process of learning, reading, connecting, and will be pursuing plans for 2010 Significance meetings. Coming soon-

In the meantime, I don’t want to unveil everything before it’s time. So I am savoring my green shakes, getting back into the routine of gym. (remember anything becomes a habit after 21 days!!) and reading and reading.

Heck, I finally took down my Christmas tree.

and cleaned those dirty spots in the corner of the kitchen floor, under the cabinets that nobody else really sees but me.

and finished my taxes.

I am sure I will get back into social media, come February.

and eat sushi. WITH the shrimp sauce.

But atleast I now have a little more control over my time, schedule and the specific purposes behind everything I do.

and that is totally worth the 21 days.

Earth’s crammed with heaven,
And every common bush afire with God:
But only he who sees, takes off his shoes,
The rest sit round it, and pluck blackberries…
Elizabeth Barrett Browning
(wife of Robert Browning)

This is one of my favorite quotes. I never tire of it, and was reminded of it today as I woke up and realized it is th first day of the 21 day fasting and prayer. Metaphorically speaking, I will be taking of my shoes, barefoot, or just especially honoring God in my everyday life with more fasting, prayer, Bible study and reading of great positive books that uplift me and help me gain focus on where I am headed in 2010.

I was planning that morning latte, and then remembered that I had decided to do the Daniel fast.

Sometimes I may doubt myself and my goals and all that I SHOULD be doing but there were some obvious SIGNS in my life in the past few days that were TOO coincidental, and made it very clear what I was going to do through the end of January. I think God is in the little things, the everyday of our life, and sometimes He can surely make it obvious, what we are to do.

1. I had considered giving up twitter and facebook, but kept wondering if I really HAD to. After all it is such a small fraction of my time to just tweet what I am doin, maybe inspire or encourage another. But then, 2 days ago, part of my keyboard stopped working. Not just any part, but the top row of symbols/numbers. This meant I had no at @ sign to respond to another tweet. I could not even write my own address to sign into facebook. I also was missing my ! which is always necessary to show my excitement and enthusiasm!! or my ( quotes ) to parenthesize the tangents in my head. It was so frustrating! I was having to copy and paste exclamation points from old emails. So I KNEW that social media was goin for the month.

Now that I have solidified the commitment (and announced it), the dang thing is miraculously working again.

2. I went in to make a cup of coffee, and realized there just happened to be enough grounds for ONE MORE CUP. So I graciously prepared the latte machine for my husband and accepted the obvious 2 x 4 across my head.

3. I went to the bookstore with Jacob-13 last night. I really did not want to get out in the cold, but he wanted to go. I had some books I could look up, so we went and I sat for over an hour, reading Jack Canfield’s new book , “The Success Principle”. He started the Chicken Soup for the Souls. It was great, and it got me so excited for the new year and new goals. I had to remind myself that I am holding off on specifics and using this time in January to gain clarity. So I came home even more fired up and anxious for the fasting time to begin.

4. My husband, Wildman, and I had already scheduled time for this morning to get together and discuss new goals. I was able to use some of the new “strategic communication questions” that I learned in Jack’s book, and we had a great talk. We are on the same page, and I am going into this 21 day commitment with much more clarity of purpose.

So no more tweets or facebook for 21 days. No more coffee and all the restrictions of the Daniel diet. But YAY, more reading ,more exercise, more prayer time with God, more praise and worship. I might even blog a little about my experience.

unless my keyboard speaks to me again..:)

NEW GOALS

I am not sure about my convictions for the year yet, but this I do know -  I am waiting. I am feeling the intense desire and calling to seek God and His heart and purpose for this new Year. I am still reflecting back over the past decade, and all we walked, or really flitted through-

We moved into our new home, had a new baby JoBear, lost my oldest son, Joshua, in 02, and spent the next several years trying to figure out what  was causing Jo’s meltdowns. It really was almost a decade of grief and meltdowns. Through it all God was still there and we have some really blessed moments to remember. All the while having a ministry, speaking at over 200 engagments, building a network, quitting speaking to stay closer to home, starting a wall mural business again, ending a wall mural business after one REALLY good month, and discovering Jo was allergic to gluten, videogames, loud crowds, over sensory environments, and well, “change”.

Knowledge is empowering. He is a big boy now and once again, just as I am feeling like I mastered an era, the family dynamics go and change on me again. But Praise God, it is a good thing.

So before I run off into the new year with my hair on fire, I decided to take january to seek God and His input on the matter. What a novel idea!

I am looking back int othe wake of all the things I masterfully started..not all finished. Being creative (or ADD?) means always having new ideas, new interests, getting a wild flair to paint or design a flyer, start a network of women, build connections, minister, blog- its always something. Its always good and I know God gave me these talents, but so many varying activities cannot always be His purpose. I know I need to simplify and get focused on my priorities to see blessings in specific areas this year.

So before I run off on any tangents, as good as they may be, I am just waiting. This is probably one of the least favorite things I like to do.

CONTROL

I relate it to sitting and waiting for my husband, Wildman, to finish flipping channels and stay on one long enough to evaluate its content, maybe even camp there, and set down the remote. Of course, he will never set down the remote when anyone else is in the room, and I eventually will become so frustrated with the lack of control that I have, and wander off to sort papers, or blog or create something that I know I can DO. I know this is a control-thing.

As has always been my struggle with God. Relinquishing control and waiting on Him to move in my life. I used to have  fabulous message on the very subject of relinquishing control and letting God carry us, through the fires or grief and challenges, but you know, it is a DAILY decision, and so continually living it is still the challenge.

GPS

Or another example, how I feel when I am in the passenger seat and my husband is taking alternate routes, off the beaten path (which he has done now for 21 years) and I am sitting there, knowing we are lost, knowing he will not admit it, knowing, we are not going to ask for directions and will most likely be late for the event, but having to wait until he finds his way back. That is frustrating.

Well fortunately that is a thing of the past now that we have GPS on our phones, and FORTUNATELY, God always knows exactly where He is going. So when I wait on Him, I know I cannot lose, will not get off-course and will not have to ask anyone else for directions. Seeking Him IS the map, the journey, and the destination.

So as much as I am not comfortable “waiting”, I know it is what I should be doing right now. I am “proactively” participating in the www.awake21.org fasting and prayer, that lasts 21 days in the month of January. Here is a great site for fasting options. I love the Daniel fast, as it is so close to the vegan Hallelujah acres fast that we were implementing years ago. My Dad first introduced it to us, being good friends with some of the founders in NC.

While I am in this process, I cannot say whether I will write or not. I am not committing to blogging, (altho I creatively DESIRE to set up topics for each day of the week, get more proficient with my nikon, and and hit the blog running…)

I am not.

I will, however, probably share a bit of what I am walking through, when I can. The official fasting starts next Sunday. I will be in the gym most of the month, in a daily Bible study, and focusing on home. Home will consist of helping our whole family plan appropriate meals according to whatever fasts they each feel called to implement-Helping our whole family keep a focus. Cheerfully being In the present, supporting my guys in wrestling, Basketball, premier travel Basketball, and a new emphasis on reading books consistently, charity and family bible study.

I have faith that I am not giving up my talents, business or ministry or even plans to continue the Significance event we so enjoyed last month, but will be just holding off for a few weeks to gain some CLARITY on where my energies should be.

As Pastor Kerri Weems said, years ago, “Anytime you say YES to something, it is an automatic NO to something else”.

I encourage you to think about that when you commit to your community, friends, church and self.  Yes- even church. What are you saying no to, especially concerning your number one ministry of serving family? I mean, we need to get that one right. If family is not right, all the others dim in comparison.

I hope you will join me in these reflections this month and would love to hear from you in your experiences!

I had such an awesome time in the quiet presence of God yesterday in our worship time at church. I have really been praying about where God is leading me in ministry and all the things I feel called to do. I know inasmuchas I have such grandiose plans to impact others, there are still very obvious and specific needs in my home, as wife and mom. I will be implementing some changes in focus on this blog and in my newsletter and website soon. I know it is going to be a great year.
Starting school routine again tomorrow will give me a new perspective. I will also be going to the Jan Women’s connection mtg in mandarin. Looking forward to sweet fellowship with other moms. Wed is the official start for our church’s 21 day fasting program. The site will include a schedule for prayer and study in the Word concerning fasting and prayer. This is a great way to begin the new year believing for some incredible things and seeing the year kick off spiritually grounded. I am doing a liquid fast, since all of our supplements and superfoods are so absorbable we could live on them, I will be sacrificing the gluttonous joy of eating, (which is a major comfort to me!) – also including some days of the Danial fast.
God is amazing. We had so many years of nutritional focus with Joshua’s metabolic challenges. I began to study alkaline diets for Rob and I, and how cancer cells cannot grow in an alkaline environment, and of course the Daniel diet is soo alkaline. God knew this all along, even if Daniel did not.
Today the boys and I had a goal of doing some yardwork. Just the basic goal of working as a team and raking and bagging leaves is a hyooge accomplishment. It is so easy to get distracted with the new ripsticks, and I tried to roll with it as we had the whole day. We did manage to get a lot done. The day was so beautiful (75 deg) and I love the feeling of cleaning and taking care of the land that we are blessed to own. I even had to go back out tonight and see the night sky – FULL of stars and calm. That is when I think of Joshua the most, and the wonderful Father who is caring for him now. As much as I have disciplined and delegated and referee’d and scolded today, it still was a good one for us. I have blisters on my hands from raking, and yet still my cup runneth over.
Thank you God.